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post #1 of 22 (permalink) Old 07-14-2011, 03:34 AM Thread Starter
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I need some advice here, I am 41 and single. Been working at the same job since 1997 so people know my status. Its a pretty big office. Needless to say I am soooo sick of the " When you gonna find a wife" question. Dont they know us single people over 40 already have a lot of stress. We wonder if we will ever find the one, and being Chinese I am very old to be single. In China marriage age is sooner than in the USA, so I feeling the pressure there too. Sometimes I what to say " leave me the f alone" but I know I know they dont mean anything by it, it just irks me to hear that question so often.

At this point, I rather win the lottery and get a paid mistress and forget all this looking for the one stuff. Its pure agony but being human its in my DNA to seek a mate.

What a PITA, this stuff is.
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Re: Single guy question

what do you do on the weekends? after work?


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[quote author=sicride8724 link=topic=193441.msg4070658#msg4070658 date=1310631560]
what do you do on the weekends? after work?
[/quote]+1, this is really your best hope... do things you're interested in, as often as possible and just work on talking to/meeting people.

My housemate is chinese and in the same boat, altho hes only approaching 30... but he tries real hard. Goes to salsa classes 2 nights a week, soccer 2 nights a week. You invite him to ANYTHING he'll say yes. Like the movie Yes man. Good way to live your life if you want to meet people


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[quote author=sicride8724 link=topic=193441.msg4070658#msg4070658 date=1310631560]
what do you do on the weekends? after work?
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the answer should be: go out, find willing lady, "accidentally" PIITB. If she doesn't scream/slap you, she's a keeper. Marry the fuck out of her and be done with it.


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[quote author=Alec Trevelyan link=topic=193441.msg4070790#msg4070790 date=1310650085]
the answer should be: go out, find willing lady, "accidentally" PIITB. If she doesn't scream/slap you, she's a keeper. Marry the fuck out of her and be done with it.
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Dating advice from Nate. Someone divided by zero.
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[quote author=fatabbot link=topic=193441.msg4070795#msg4070795 date=1310650305]
[quote author=Alec Trevelyan link=topic=193441.msg4070790#msg4070790 date=1310650085]
the answer should be: go out, find willing lady, "accidentally" PIITB. If she doesn't scream/slap you, she's a keeper. Marry the fuck out of her and be done with it.
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Dating advice from Nate. Someone divided by zero.
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If he took that "advice" seriously, I think we'd have a new forum whipping boy.


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no, you're a good enough whipping boy.



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Do you really want to get married? Or this just came out only because of those guys in the office?

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[quote author=Alec Trevelyan link=topic=193441.msg4070790#msg4070790 date=1310650085]
Marry the fuck out of her and be done with it.
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I really like a more thorough explanation as to... how...? LOL
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I searched 40 year old chinese man in google and got this



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