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post #1 of 28 (permalink) Old 07-11-2009, 01:41 AM Thread Starter
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came home to my gf crying....

well, my girlfriend called me from work telling me she was off and I could head to her house. when I get there, the first thing I notice is that her dad's red cherokee is missing. when I pull up closer I see me gf with tears running down her face. I get out and she tells me her mom and dad are getting a divorce. after trying to comfort her for a few minutes, she explains that her mom caught him red handed cheating. well, trying to cheat. her mom has always been suspicious of him.

As I walked up to the back door, I see blood everywhere. its on the concrete, on the brick steps, the wall and even on the glass panes on their back door. when her mom found out about it, she hit him in the face at least 15 times. her knuckle is swollen and probably broken.


well, what really got her mom suspicious was that he took my gf's little brother and sister to see fireworks at a nearby lake. Some people her dad works with has a lake house there and they all met up there for the 4th of July. The odd thing is, her dad (whom we'll call "Greg" from now on) despises fireworks and can't stand some of the people he works with. So then why would he so willingly want to take the kids to the fireworks?

My gf's mom couldn't go however, bc she is a nurse and was on call that night.

I thought nothing of it. I was on her dads side. I thought she was giving him an awful hard time for "being a good father" and taking his kids to see some fireworks. Shows how much I know the man. I've known him for 5 years and thought he was strange, but a good person at heart. I thought wrong.

well, her mom was making Greg sleep on the floor because she was mad at him for going to the fireworks and leaving her at home like that. and he was doing it. he was literally sleeping on the floor without a fuss. She made the point to me later, "why would an innocent man sleep on the floor when he hasn't done anything."

and heres the final straw... my gf's mom disguised her voice (which she can do very well apparently) and called up his work. He answered and she asked to speak to the girl in question which we'll call Amy for ease of story telling. When Amy got on the phone, my gf's mom told her, "look, I want to know whats going on with you and Greg. Somethings up and I want to know about it." Amy told her to call her on her cell phone and gave her the number.

Well, my gf's mom calls Amy and they meet up in a town close to where Greg and Amy works. they discuss the whole thing. Apparently, Greg is harassing her every day. He keep s telling her to have sex with him. He even got in her face and said, "You are gonna have sex with me." Amy told him no every time. The thing is, she is scared. She has two young children and is going through a divorce of her own.

Theres more to the story, but I can't recall everything right this moment. The points are, its plainly obvious that he has been sexually harassing his coworker, and cheating on my gf's mom.

anyhow, my gf is very upset and somewhat numb. shes most upset that her little brother and sister are gonna have to grow up without their father and she just doesn't think she'll ever look at him the same again.

I really don't know what to do.

Her mom gave Greg the checkbook and told him to get out. She was gonna get a lawyer Monday and that they were gonna split the bank account right down the middle. Things however are gonn be very complicated now. Like whos gonna get the house? Whos gonna have custody of the kids and when? etc etc. Its really overwhelming and I feel horrible for both my gf and her mother. Her little 8 year old brother pretty much was there for the whole dispute, but hes taking it better than anybody. tough little guy.

I guess the best thing I can do is be there for my gf and for her little brother and sister. They've always been a little annoying just like you would thing your gf's younger siblings would be. but I guess I need to grow up and be something of a man in their lives. not necessarily a father figure, you know what i mean. It does make me thankful for my own parents.


well, i guess thats enough ranting for now. I hope what I've written actually makes some grammatical sense such that its readable.








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Re: came home to my gf crying....

imo best thing to do would to be there for your g/f. cheating is fucked up. imo you cheat/rape you need your dick cut off. then again im a cut throat type person.


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Re: came home to my gf crying....

well, you think you know somebody. 3 or 4 years ago, her mom had broken her hand from falling off a ladder (so I thought). apparently she broke it when she smashed a thick glass ornament or something over his head. He was hitting her or something.

I never had a clue about this. I knew he got riled up very easy and had a BAD temper, but I never suspected he would hit his wife. God forbid he hit my gf.... I swear to God. If I got word of that I would hunt him down and strangle him with my bare hands.


but yeah, there was blood everywhere. I'm positive he didn't fight back or anything, but she punched him in the face at least 15 times. i just hope he doesn't use that as leverage in court while settling things. She told him they would split everything right down the middle. Which is very generous considering she make probably twice what he does.


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ugh!!!! hitting women is something i can not tolerate. now i want to drive to NC and beat his fucking ass. if my dad ever hits my mom. he better watch the fuck out. as well as if a guy ever hits my sister. any of my friends that are of the female species as well.


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[quote author=rynosilver3 link=topic=150138.msg3221672#msg3221672 date=1247292221]
ugh!!!! hitting women is something i can not tolerate. now i want to drive to NC and beat his fucking ass. if my dad ever hits my mom. he better watch the fuck out. as well as if a guy ever hits my sister. any of my friends that are of the female species as well.
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I knew nothing about it. I don't think he actually beat her or anything. thats all my gf said, that hes hit her before. And to be honest, that could many anything. Not that it makes it any better.


but yeah, if I were to see it happen, I would wrap his legs around his own throat.


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Re: came home to my gf crying....

that's pretty rough...

everyone starts out saying equal split...until their lawyers get involved...

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wow that sounds pretty violent...good thing there weren't any guns in the home i'm assuming

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wow that sounds pretty violent...good thing there weren't any guns in the home i'm assuming
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her dad has at least 15. mostly rifles.


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Re: came home to my gf crying....

shittiest thing is for the younger kids, it can be hard on them because this kind of shit can be very confusing to them. just hope that the divorce goes smoothly. its actually preferable for the children in the family that this all happens really quickly and without too much craziness. I am not gonna stick up for the cheating husband but it was wrong of your mom to lose her cool and hit him in front of the 8 year old. Whatever happens from here on out they can't fight infront of the kids, keep them the fuck out of this mess until it gets sorted out.

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[quote author=krazyk86cu link=topic=150138.msg3221733#msg3221733 date=1247295699]
[quote author=.JJ. link=topic=150138.msg3221732#msg3221732 date=1247295663]
wow that sounds pretty violent...good thing there weren't any guns in the home i'm assuming
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her dad has at least 15. mostly rifles.
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whoa...good thing no one got shot.

I live in a nice suburban area & basically the same thing happened, husband cheating on wife, she found out & shot him 3 times with a .380.

I actually heard the shots, but just thought it was kids messing around with fire works.

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