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I met this beautiful/intelligent 22 year old Indian girl at my Catholic college group about 3 weeks ago. I was attracted to her the moment I saw her.
She was born and raised in Kuwait, went to college in India and is going to a medical university here in America to get her masters degree. And I'm your average white 22 year old American college student.
Ever since we met each other we seek each other out at the college group meetings and after church. Last night at our Friday night college meet we were talking and I mentioned that anytime it is raining really hard I could give her a ride home (she normally takes the bus) which is on the way to my apartment. She said "ok" and walks over to go talk to one of her friends. I was surprised that she just walked away, then I thought maybe that was an inappropriate thing to offer since maybe unmarried men and women aren't supposed to be alone together where she comes from. I went to go help put some things away in the kitchen, she walks in and says "lets exchange phone numbers so I can call you sometime" we swap numbers and she says goodbye and goes to catch the bus. About ten minutes later I get a call from her saying she needs my help and that she missed the bus. I go to meet her at the front door and I said that I could take her home since I was leaving. She said "are you sure?" I said "no problem it's on my way home". We walk out to my car and she says "nice car" . On the way to her apartment we make small talk and she talks about how boring it is not having a group of friends to hang out with and how she would like to explore the city(Portland,OR) e.t.c..... We get to her apartment I drop her off and we say good night.

So I'm trying to figure out if she set up the whole 'I missed the bus, help me' thing. The reason why I suspect she planned it is because she didn't need to call me since she was just coming back to the church to wait for the next bus, and when she said she needed my help, there wasn't anything I could have done, except drive her home (which she didn't ask me to do), but I wound up doing after asking her if she wanted a ride.

I'm also confused as to what she meant when she said the reason she wanted to exchange phone #'s was so she could call me some time. Call me for what?, to hang out?, to go out on a date?, to be some one she could call if she needed to talk about stuff?

As you can see I'm not great at reading women (especially when they are from another culture).

I could use some help trying to figure all this out.

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You're in like a mofo man, just keep doing what you're doing and she'll be your girl in less then a week. Wish it was that easy for me.


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Hey someone I can relate too. I can't read women either. But you also sound like the type of guy who cares. IMO like stated, keep it up. You're in.


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[quote author=CT-Zoom-Zoom link=topic=126167.msg2688486#msg2688486 date=1223866351]
You're in like a mofo man, just keep doing what you're doing and she'll be your girl in less then a week. Wish it was that easy for me.
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Yep, wish it was that easy for me too....My girlfriend dumped me yesterday

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You're good. Just keep kicking it with her.

Remember the number 1 rule, just get her to be comfortable chilling with you and you're golden.

gluck.


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Sounds like you lined everything up already, good job!  IMO don't look too deep into this and that, ya she might of made the whole "missing" the bus thing up.  If she did who cares, that is just plain awesome.  Seems like she's really into you...I think we're all in the same boat about reading women.

I myself am having some troubles...
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If Ive learned anything in my trials and tribulations of relationships or whatever... its just to let things happen. Sounds cliche but if its meant to be then its gonna happen. The second you start obsessing or actually trying at something is when things start to fall apart and go south. Just go with the punches yo!! Thats what Ive found to be the magic ingredient. People try to hard sometimes, myself included, but once you just sit back relax, chill, and roll with the punches... things will start happening. So stop thinking about why, or how, or what she did and just go with it.


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[quote author=DRoc7822 link=topic=126167.msg2688992#msg2688992 date=1223885598]
If Ive learned anything in my trials and tribulations of relationships or whatever... its just to let things happen. Sounds cliche but if its meant to be then its gonna happen. The second you start obsessing or actually trying at something is when things start to fall apart and go south. Just go with the punches yo!! Thats what Ive found to be the magic ingredient. People try to hard sometimes, myself included, but once you just sit back relax, chill, and roll with the punches... things will start happening. So stop thinking about why, or how, or what she did and just go with it.
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wow, +1 to that

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yeah sounds pretty good ^

gotta really realize they don't always know what they want either....she may be going over things in her head and trying to figure out what she really wants with you. Your job is to not fuck up :P sounds like you're doing fine but if she's reaching out to be with you gotta make sure you reach back a little if you want her. if you are always seeking eachother out it may be time to ask her out or at least offer more rides home...like even if it isn't raining lol


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