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How do you tell your brother that his Fiancee is cheating on him?

A little background information: I work with my dad, my mom, and my brother's Fiancee. My whole family has suspected her of cheating on him with a guy that we work with now for a long time. We've all tried to tell my brother what we think. I even found a note that she wrote to him about coming to her house after work, and my brother just won't believe any of us, and was making up excuses for her before he even had the chance to ask her about it. The only thing he ever has to say is, "I can't wait until she doesn't work there anymore." My dad doesn't put things as nicely as the rest of us, and asked my brother what it was like to share a hole. There is a surplus of class in this family.

Anyway, Kevin, my brother, just won't believe us, so we gave up on telling him about 6-8 months ago. He and his Fiancee have been together for nearly 7 years. They've been living together for about a year and a half, he pays for all of her bills, ignores any other girl who talks to him, and they want to get pregnant soon. She's been cheating on him for at least 2 years(that we know of). She's a major attention whore and loves any attention that any guy will give her.

Through a little bit of PI over the course of about 2-3 weeks, we finally have proof that she's a skank and has been cheating with the guy at work. She even went grocery shopping with the guy after work yesterday. We need a whole lot of information to convince my brother that she's cheating. The boy just won't listen to us.

Here's the hard part: How do we tell him? I would love to just pin all of this evidence onto her and say, "you tell him or we will". But she's a dirty fucking liar and knows how to manipulate my brother and convince him that we made it all up and that she's done nothing wrong. This is something that we have to have him alone to do, unfortunately. We also have to do this soon before he makes a mistake that he's stuck with for 18 years. I'm so mad at her that I can't think of any tactful ways to put this to my brother without him holding a grudge for the rest of his life. My brother and I are really close, but she's always been #1 in his eyes.

Side note: aside from the cheating, we all really like his Fiancee, and thought she was a great girl before all of this shit went down.



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Re: How do you tell your brother that his Fiancee is cheating on him?

give me his phone number.

I will call him right now.


Personally, lead him onto the clues that will help him find out. Or just fucking cut her head off... one way or another it'll work.


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Re: How do you tell your brother that his Fiancee is cheating on him?

Smack him upside the head and point it out blunt as can be. If he doesn't listen its his choice. Do it with your entire family, have them all point out whats going on. Get a couple of his friends in on it too.

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Re: How do you tell your brother that his Fiancee is cheating on him?

Well, I'd start off by getting everyone together, in the same room, family, the girl, and the co-worker shes cheating on your brother with, and laying it all down. The truth will come out then.

And hell, if you can afford to, fire both her and the other dude. Family first.

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Re: How do you tell your brother that his Fiancee is cheating on him?

So far at least 5 people have tried to tell him: my mother, my father, my other brother, a co-worker of mine, and myself. He seriously thinks that we're all just saying this because as an excuse to not like her, which isn't true at all.


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Re: How do you tell your brother that his Fiancee is cheating on him?

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put the screws to the guy she's fucking..

You want to keep your job? Well you better fess up to my brother about your shananagins.


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Re: How do you tell your brother that his Fiancee is cheating on him?

Sounds like she's got his nuts in a jar in her vanity. If it were my brother I'd just tell him straight to his face without dressing it up, but unfortunately your brother obviously isn't believing you like mine would. I'd say you'd probably have to get picture and/or video evidence of it in order to get him to believe it.

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We have email proof.

Too bad we don't have a voice/video recorder for the days when those two used to stay in the office after everyone else went home. I even tipped my brother off to go by the office to see it, but he didn't.


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I say try to get a picture of her and the guy she is cheating with


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They could have fucked ontop of the copier... oh man, fire those bitches. lol


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