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GF PROBLEMS!! :(

Ok guys,

Me and gf just had another fight! it seems like it always about the same thing....me wanting more time with her. she just wants to be spending more time with friends,work,daughter etc.... but i feel like i always get the short end of the stick and i dont get the quality time i should be getting which i think is making us grow apart.

This last fight we had was terrible! i said alot of things that i shouldnt have said and now im am REGRETTING every damn word i said! i want eveything to work out between us but i feel she should give me a little more attention regardless of how tired she is or how busy she gets or with any issues. im very giving and i feel i do so much for her regardless of how i feel or what im going thru anything she needs from me im there for her! she knows she can always count on me but i sometimes feel she doesnt give me the same! she always tells me that she works to much, she also has alot going on with her daughter and also her friends. trying to balance everything seems like its hard for her! should i just end this? what would you guys do in my situation
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Re: GF PROBLEMS!! :(

you have to realize that if you're dating a single mother, you will never be her #1 priority (unless she is a terrible mother)....
you need to be happy as #2 or #3...or move on....jmo

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Re: GF PROBLEMS!! :(

You should give her some space... it's hard but it'd be better in your situation.

I am gonna try to put this to make sense... you're so into her and yet she doesn't seem like she's showing the same for you. She can use that to do something against you and you will just forgive her cause you love her soooo much. Hope you understand what I mean.


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Re: GF PROBLEMS!! :(

Well, im not an expert on women. But I first recommend that you apologize about what you said, as you feel bad about it. Try and talk to her to see if she feels you guys should just take some time off, or if you should like john said, move on. Good luck
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Oh, you will have to try many many things to get her to forgive you... good luck.


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maybe she feels like you're smothering her?


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Re: GF PROBLEMS!! :(

Or be her baby sitter.


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Thats actually what ive been thinking about and taking a few months off... you know the crazy thing is that we always spoke about marriage all the time,spending the rest of our lives together,having a family and such...i even got her the ring! and now im unsure what she wants.

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Well, im not an expert on women. But I first recommend that you apologize about what you said, as you feel bad about it. Try and talk to her to see if she feels you guys should just take some time off, or if you should like john said, move on. Good luck
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maybe your right! maybe i just need to give her more space

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maybe she feels like you're smothering her?
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Re: GF PROBLEMS!! :(

sounds to me like you are saying you support her with anything she does, and you are there for her constantly....except for when she feels the need to be with someone other than yourself. It does sound needy, and smothering, and hypocritical.....do you really support everything she does if she needs to spend all of her time with you for you to feel validated?

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