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post #1 of 23 (permalink) Old 04-20-2008, 03:53 PM Thread Starter
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Ok so here is the deal me and my girlfirend of 2 1/2 years broke up. I lied to her about somethign someone said to her. I have no clue what i was thinking when I did it. She is pretty upset. We have been broken up for about a week and I dont know what to do. Like at times we will hang out and it will pretty much be like were back together. I love her more than anythign But i want to be back with her. I dont know If i should talk to her and flirt with her everytime i have the chance or if I should give her her space and let her miss me. I also wanna show her that she can trust me again. WHAT DO I DO??????
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Talk to her?

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say all of what you told us. It will work. Don't flirt with her when you say it though be serious so she knows your not just going to run off and do some dumb shit again. Talk to her and be serious when you do it and say it like you mean it.

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I have talked to her. She says she needs space and time, but everytime i hang out with her I flirt with her and her friends say that she gets confused everytime we hang out cause she hecka misses me so do i not talk to her and let her have space and time or do what I have been doing??
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give her some space for a couple days or so BUT don't wait too long because she could start meeting other guys to get over you and start the whole "love" journey all over but she will still love you even if that does happen but you don't want to loose her so just talk to her and don't be so flirty it will confuse her more and will make it seem like what you did wasn't a big deal.

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so no talking really textin deff no flirting but dont let her move on so kinda just do something that starts her missing me a little bit??
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yea sort of. take care of her and stuff... do what you did to make her feel comfortable when you 2 were in a relation ship but if she says no its ok to something like "baby you ok you want me to come over" just keep the distance and don't force the "i think you need me right now i am coming" You got to be smooth now lol

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Yea shoot i gotta win her back this could be tuff she is stubborn lol
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I'd consider given her 7-10 days of space so she can think some things through. During this time, I would not initiate any telephone calls, text messages or email. Then, around day 10, send her an email or a text message stating you want to talk. During the talk, apologize for whatever caused the tension between the two of you, somehow reassure her that she can trust you 110% and tell her how you want as a part of your long-term future.


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post #10 of 23 (permalink) Old 04-20-2008, 05:23 PM
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dam 7-10 days is a lot of time. I have had a similar situation to this happen to one of my friends and he gave her too much time about 5 days later she went out with another dude.....

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