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This is a sucky thing to go through and I am hoping for tips from some that have experienced it.

My wife met a guy last summer and I didnt even know he existed until the middle of January. I had suspected she was cheating because of her behavior, but she kept denying anything was going on. The week before valentines day I kicked her out of the house because she spent the whole day with him while I was at work, wearing a skimpy outfit and wouldnt even hug me when I got home. Two days later she actually confessed to it. Needless to say, we are getting divorced, because she is totally untrustworthy. The sad thing is, we have an amazingly cute and mischevious 15 month old baby and I am hating putting her through this, even though we agree on joint custody. Get this, I work two jobs to keep us afloat and the wankster she has been seeing just quit his job at Carls Jr and lives at home with his parents.

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fuck that go to court get your kid and roll the fuck out bro. that ho need to get the fuck on if she thinks she deserves that kid. imagine na few yrs when the kids asking why mom n dad dont live together. i doubt shes gonna be like " oh dear its ok. mommy wanted to be a big fucking butt slut and fuck around while daddy was bustin his ass at work paying for all my shit "


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OMG I am so sorry that you have to go thru this. I know I dont qualify because I am unmarried and only 21 but I have been in a serious relationship (well it was naive young love in high school) and I thought I would one day marry the guy. I didnt want to do the dirty deed because I wasnt ready so I noticed he wasnt into seeing me like he used to. This girl moved here at the time and he started showing her around school, and I was like ok she is new here and he was being nice to her. Then he wanted to get her a job at the same place we worked, thats cool whatever. Then he wanted to take her to the mall and thats when I was like wait a minute what about me? Its one thing being a school friend and trying to help her get a job but going somewhere with her when I can go to and not inviting me? I just put it on the back burner until he dumped me 2 days before my first homecoming dance ever because I never had a date to it before. He put it down like it was a break but we could get back together. I asked if we could still decorate our cars together for the homecoming car contest (something our school did) and he said yes and to call him the next day. I did and he didnt answer, finally he called me back and he said he was with that girl and already decorated the car with her. I was like WTF and thats when I finally stopped turning a blind eye and confronted him if he cheated on me and he admitted it. Needless to say obviously I wouldnt have married the guy and she was ugly as sin and turned out to be a psycho and he tried to beg for me back numerous times saying no girl has ever treated him like I did when we dated (no surprise there). He gave up on me over 2 years ago and I heard he got married. I forgave him eventually and for a while we were talking but that was like I said over 2 years ago lol

I know its not the same as being married with a child but I wish you the best of luck and I hope for your childs sake you can forgive her on a level to be civilized with one another just for your kid. I believe once any cheats on another then thats its, marriage/relationship done which is truly sad.

Look at the bright side she picked one F-ed up loser of a guy lol

I hope some of this might have helped you I wish you the best of luck!


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fuck that go to court get your kid and roll the fuck out bro. that ho need to get the fuck on if she thinks she deserves that kid. imagine na few yrs when the kids asking why mom n dad dont live together. i doubt shes gonna be like " oh dear its ok. mommy wanted to be a big fucking butt slut and fuck around while daddy was bustin his ass at work paying for all my shit "
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Dude its hard for the dad to get sole custody. Courts always favor the mom. I asked her the same thing, what she was going to tell our daughter and she was like, "we will say mommy made some bad mistakes."

Screw that, I will not sugarcoat the truth. Maybe it will help our daughter when she picks a time to settle down. I hate lying and being devious. The truth is what it is.

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get proof. call cheaters XD
but if you work 2 jobs how will you take care of your child?
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If you dont mind me asking, How old are both of you? I know people always say dont marry young, I personally think it doesnt matter because the only thing stopping my boyfriend and I from getting married is the fact that we arent financially ready to move out and start our life just yet. Other then that we would probably get married tomorrow lol

Actually you need to look into it but court will NOT favor the mother if she isnt financially secure and if there has been adultry on her part. I am not 100% sure but until she has a secure job without needing any assistance you could get sole custody on top of that she would owe YOU the child support. I would look heavily into that and get a good lawyer, pay the extra if that means fighting for your child.


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that really f'ing sucks though bro...f man...


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shovel and a wood chipper problem solved. I know a few good spots, pm me and Ill tell ya

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shes right. just cuz shes the mom dont mean shit. a woman is capable of being a POS too. just cuz shes the one that spit it out dont mean shes got a free ride. you working 2 jobs and being faithful and her doing the exact opposite yea she dont got a snowballs chance in hell


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this thread fills me with rage towards dishonorable people

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