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So there's this girl....

Hey everyone,

I have a question....Ok, I got a friend that I always hangout with and everything. We are cool with each other, I take her to lunch like almost every day and idk but lately I guess I really started to like her. I dont think she thinks of me in that way but I just love being around her and talking to her when I can, you know just the small stuff.

I don't know if I should tell her because I don't want to mess up our friendship or anything like that but I just...I don't know...
And after next summer, I might never see her again...



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Re: So there's this girl....

Hmm thats a tough one. Because if you tell her you like her she could possibly not wanna hang out everyday because she doesn't want to lead you on. But then there is the chance she could possibly have a thing for you too and is scared to tell you. I say let her know you are starting to have feelings for her but don't want it to affect your frienship. I mean if you guys hang out everyday and go to lunch then there is obviously something there. I say go for it, because if you don't you are gonna have regrets later down the road.

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I was pretty much in the same exact situation a year or two ago, I was hoping for the best and, i confessed to her, and i never felt the same way about her afterwards. O well, you fall down and you get back up again. I say take the chance, it's better than regretting you didn't do anything about it.


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Tell her your feelings, and if she doesn't feel the same way I'm pretty sure you two can still be friends. Just if she refuses, don't then try to start hitting on her or some shit. You might as well take the chance, otherwise you'll never know what the result could have been.

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Re: So there's this girl....

that's why guys and girls can't be friends...if the girl is attractive (to him), the guy can't help but get those urges...

if she really is a friend worth having, you won't lose her just because she knows you like her "that way".

oh, some of you guys might claim otherwise...but you're lying.
girls, you have no idea, or you do and you like to milk it for what its worth.

I have girl friends that aren't girlfriends, but they all know I want to do em! LOL JK

(personally, I would just grab her butt playfully and see what she does).

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Re: So there's this girl....

You will never get an answer to an unasked question ... tell her how you feel.


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Bullshit. It's very easy to be friends unless you're a horny retard who can't control his dick.

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[quote author=khergan link=topic=99321.msg1978439#msg1978439 date=1199846896]
you're a horny retard who can't control his dick.
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Dammit! How did you know?


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Re: So there's this girl....

OP if you like the girl tell her its okay. Whats the worst that could happen?
I'm kinda in same situation with a girl that I know and we're friends and I have tried to asked her out before but things didnt work out for me. I'm still friends with her after that but we did stop talking for couple months. Funny thing is I still like this girl

But yeah I'm in the fucking friends zone now.


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Re: So there's this girl....

Wow yea I still just don't know...I mean yea we go to lunch ALOT and I hang with her and stuff I just dont want to mess things up....I've known her for AGES and recently (Since the summer) hung out with her alot and stuff and really got to know her..I really dont think she likes me we are just friends and she doesn't mind comming to lunch with me and hanging out.

And for you horny fags......Yes you can joke around with her and she wont get mad....
lol my friend is always like, DAM look at that ass, and shes all, "You can look all you want cause you aren't getting any" hahaha I couldn't stop laughing. Shes cool like that

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