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I Hate being single...dating advice? PIC ADDED!

so heres the story. I started working for my father about 2 months ago. There happened to be an attractive girl my age who had worked there before me, but she left for a different opportunity. So, about a month into my job my fathers assistant says to me, oh you should me this girl who used to work there. So I am like, SURE! So, we found each other through internet social networks and started talking on the phone and shit. We couldn't meet up because of conflicting schedules for about a month! SUCKED! So, after a month we finally went out. I took her to dinner, I paid of course and we went seperate ways that night. I got texts from her as I was driving home saying I she had such a great time and that it was great that we finally met..yada yada. So I felt pretty damn good about the whole situation.

So after that we talked a bit. Then we had a "2nd" date last night. This is where it gets confusing sorta because it had been such a long stretch of time between the first "date" and the "2nd date". The second date was a hockey game followed by dinner and walking in and around Las Olas. Pretty much the "hollywood movie" kinda date if you ask me, but it was fun. I am just having a hard as hell time reading this girl, impossible for most I know...but she is quiet and thats fine, but I can also talk to her...we share alot of the same interests. And she laughs a lot at my humour and constantly reminds me how funny I am. Ugh...I hate this. So, as we were walking back and we hit my townhouse she goes in for the hug and I go, "I'll walk you to your car." So I did, we hugged and she says to me, "If I don't see you have a Happy New Year." At that point I was like fuck man...this isn't right. But I mean, its not so bad...we could just remain friends and you never know. But on the other hand, she is a very modest girl..and thats very different for me. So I have NO idea what to expect here. She doesn't seem to be the "lets fuck on the 3rd date" kinda girl and she recently got out of a pretty tough relationship a few months ago...so I think I should just play it cool, but it sucks because I really like her and I think its great shes not one of "those girls"...but, my patients sucks and I hate thinking about it all the time...I just wanna know what is going on...I hate not knowing that. But I think its pretty obvious whats going to happen..any thoughts?

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Re: I Hate being single...dating advice?

Seems to be going well so far! Better than my last couple dating experiences at least! Just continue doing what you're doing, and things will progress. She seems really into you already, so don't rush things.



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Seriously, if you are all freaked like this...you'll blow it. It's a tough time of year to start of a relationship. Holidays are over, New Years eve is today...she just got out of a relationship. Give it time and just hang out with her. If you show too much interest you may scare her off if she wants to slowly get back into things. Keep a little mystery going and don't make her think your life is currently revolving around her...that may make her think you have nothing else going for you. Trust me...I was young and stupid...I've learned. I am not saying play games. Games are for jackasses. But just relax and take your tim with her.

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Take it from a pretty shy and modest girl. She probably likes you a lot but wants to take it slow and test out the waters before jumping into another relationship. Play it cool and don't try to smother her. Just be yourself and I'm sure things will transpire to your liking!


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ouch "If i dont see you for new years....."

that must have put some butterflies in ur stomach..

But hey.. you could make that your new years resolution.... hopefully she makes it hers


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LoL, I love how you mention that you paid for dinner.

Seriously though, you're right on target bro. You're making her laugh and taking it slow. I know you wanna hit it, but use this as a learning opportunity in which to work on your patience. Ol' girl likes you, just keep taking her out and make her laugh as much as possible.

Now ... I want to see pics of said hottie.


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Hey guys/gals! Thanks for the kind replies. I didn't expect so many replies so soon! lol. Yeah, as we were walking back to my townhouse last night I told her How I enjoy spending time with her. I think it caught her off guard a bit..I got the ...pause... "AWWWW thats so sweet!" response, sounded positive and not sarcastic in anyway..I can spot sarcasm a mile away! Overall, now that I have slept on it, it did go very well. I just have no idea what to do now because I want to see her on New Years, but I can also understand she may wanna do something away from guys in general because last year her bf broke up with her 2 days before new years on the phone no less!! So yeah, I totally understand. I kinda feel like I can't do anything..and maybe that would be the best thing to do? Just let it unfold and see what happens. She also told me the "get together" she is going to is very small and wasn't sure if it would be okay io invite other people. So we will see!

BTW, last night we ended up splitting the dinner cost. I kinda just played it off and gave her the evil eye and I said, "Are you suuuure you wanna do that?" and she just looked at me kinda flirty..and I said, "Weeeeell, if you insist." And she just laughed..it was quite funny and I don't thing it will affect anything going forward.

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hurry up and call her to go out tonight!

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[quote author=John_in_the_LBC link=topic=98563.msg1956778#msg1956778 date=1199111554]
hurry up and call her to go out tonight!
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That was my kneejerk reaction too ... but, like Lara said, he doesn't want to smother the poor girl. She already has plans for tonight, so calling her up and asking her out is not a good idea. He'll just get a no and she might think he's coming on too strong and trying to be controlling. Let Ol' girl go to her partay and send her some text messages. She may get bored at this thing and want to hang out with you, or she may find out that it's ok to invite you and tell you to come on over to the partay.


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