alright, i gotta get some things off my chest here and try to pick the brains of women-kind around here if you'll let me.
i'm just going to stop complimenting women. because you don't care anyway, half of you think you're the ugliest thing on the earth and you make me feel like a liar when i do.
if you can't take compliments and always find the worst in them then shut the fuck up and kill yourself already because the world doesn't need you.
yeah i said it.
perhaps that is harsh but nothing makes me angrier than when i tell a girl she is beautiful or gorgeous or name that adjective and she turns around and goes "nah... i'm ugly and fat".
if you were ugly and fat we wouldn't be having this exchange of words. that is like a giant slap in the face to a guy. STOP IT. you're not helping women anywhere, you're not helping yourself and you're not helping the guy try to be honest. how do you expect any guy to be honest if you dismiss most of the honestly coming out of his mouth? do you have any idea how difficult it can be for a guy to truly express how he feels about how you look and then have you completely dismiss it as hogwash? and this problem is not localized with women either, but it is who i deal with so i'm talking about it.
same can be said for women who are "ashamed" of their bodies. the girl i date now would fall into this category. i think she is smokin hot, has a great butt, great features, great face, great everything. i have flat out told her she is gorgeous and i love her just the way she is. but because she doesn't have giant boobs and she has the smallest of tummies she thinks she is fat and won't even change in the same room as me. she'll have sex with me but won't change in the same room because she doesn't like her body. what kind of retarded shit is this? i just wanna scream at some people sometimes.
your body is NOT going to change (for the most part, without a lot of work) so why not just accept it? myself, i have stretch marks on my stomach, thighs and hips from gaining a lot of weight at once over the course of a year and then losing a lot of it. i'm self-conscious about it but i can't change it so i don't really care. i am who i am and if you can't accept me then hit the road and find soembody else, right?
it is just damn frustrating when i think she is perfect and the fact that she hates her body is coming between what we can do and other shit...
any advice? comments? additions? ventilation? sorry for the rant.