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post #1 of 33 (permalink) Old 07-19-2007, 04:00 AM Thread Starter
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i need to vent

im gonna warn yall this is long but i need to vent and im sorry. im not sober and im fuckin pissed and upset and i just reazlied im not over my ex gf. like she was at this party 2nite and i kicked her out and i went up to her face and caled her a slut and a bitch and im so deisugested by her and she just makes me sick.a nd then after this kid was lke ya she was tellin me how you used to beat her and im like UFCK THAT I NEVER LAID A HAND ON HER!!! and so i called her and i told her that if hse ever tires runnin my name down in this town im gonna fuckin lose it and im the best she's every had and fuck you slut. an d then the kid is like sh'e s mad kinky and im like no she's not she's shy and then he starts tellin me shit and oh my fuckin god i lost it. i seriousyl almost jumped on his fuckin head i made that bitch leave the fuckin party cuz i almost kileled him and im not the fightin type but oh man. ne ways i was upset so i drove home and idk im just upset like i was punchin the shit outta my car on the way home and my knucks are cut. but idc idk.... like no joke idk i dont want yall to think im crazy but idk i just i've fucked up so much in my life and i idk im so sorry like i thought bout runnin my car off the road so many times 2nite.... idk
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I want you to know I am not writing this to piss you off just trying to help. First thing man making mistakes is part of life. But making them worse by getting drunk and saying things you dont mean isn't good. Just a word to the wise and you can tell me to f**K off if you want but man you seriously need to stop drinking. Go to some counseling and try to find out why you are doing this to yourself and the ones you care about.
Yeah I know I may sound like a broken record but I just hate to see you getting messed up and driving. You need to find out what you want in life and stop letting life run you around. Life is what you make it and if you continue down this road your on you are in for a world of hurt.. Just trying to be the voice of reason. I hate to see people make life changing decisions when they have been drinking....... Your young what do you really have to be that upset about. yes your GF and you broke up. It happens all the time and believe me it isn't the end of the world. There is a reason you broke up and even if you cant see it yet it may be for the best.Maybe she is afraid being with you because you drink.... I dont know man but you got to take a long look at where your life is going and decide where you wont to end up. How old are you Corbs..... Just a question because i dont know. You are young I know that. You have your whole life ahead of you. get your poop in a group and figure out where your heading............ I hope you will take to heart some of the things I said . If there is anything I can do to help pm me or post up here.

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Honestly though it sounds like this kid was just TRYING to piss you off. Obviously it worked, but maybe if you had taken the time to sit down and talk to the girl about this you'd find out this kid was feeding you bullshit.

And always remember there are plenty of girls out there, why get stressed over one of them?
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One thing I've realized - and still coming to realize, cause I'm in a bit of the same situation as you (minus the drinking and what not) is that, as gru mentioned, that there are plenty of other girls around, and even though you fell for this one, that there are plenty more like her and better. Trust me on this one Corbs, I thought that one of my good friends (well used to be really good friends) was somewone I'd love to be with for a little while, right, and well, I told her this, and it fucked up the entire relationship. The weeks following were probably the worst I've seen. I lost sleep, I was very distressed, I didn't eat properly, and I felt very unhealthy. In retrospect, it was retarded of me to mention it to her, but it was building and building until I couldn't bother to not tell her about it. Worst mistake, things got wierd.. really weird.

Then I look back on it now, about the habits I picked up along the way, and I think it's retarded. As I mentioned above, there are plenty more girls in the world, and someday soon - the right one will be there. I know i'm preaching to the choir here, but I'm talking out of recent, retarded, lameass experience..

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Love is a dirty sport bud.

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post #6 of 33 (permalink) Old 07-19-2007, 09:48 AM
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I don't mean to downplay what you're feeling right now, because I've been there before and I've thought it was the end of the world too, but it's almost never as bad as you think it is. Sober up, give it some time, and just walk away from it for a while. Yeah, it hurts right now. Things get better, though.

Like everyone else here is saying, there are other women. It's not worth beating yourself up over.


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^ Very true.

Time heals all. Take it from me, I was not a believer, but things eventually got better. Just keep your mind off of it. Whatever it is you do - don't think of it anymore.

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true. i've also had some wicked girl shit go down in my life (i swear, i could write a book on getting over someone), and theres really nothing to do other than ride it out n let yourself be pissed, but in a non-destructive way. dont break anything important, dont drink your pain away, just be angry for a bit.

getting over someone is weird, one day you'll just wake up and be done, and it'll feel like the most normal thing in the world. till then... just stay sane and safe.

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I think I'm still getting over this one girl, cause I think about her often.. but not as often as I used to..

what a fucked up scenario.

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whats up corbizzle my crazy friendizzle!

hehe, stop drinking dude!
you can fight better sober anyhow. :P


but dude, dont punch your car or anything!

but yea ive been there sorta too.
when i broke up with my exgirlfriend, she started crap about me at school like a crybaby trying to ruin me, then this guy who liked her wanted to fight me, lol. we never fought cause i was a skinny korean kid at the time.
but just ignore the dude, forget the girl, try live life BETTER without her. If you act like you want her, she will be happier and weird about it.
there are more girls out there.
I wanted my ex back soo bad, but then when i started to meet other girls and stuff, i realized i didnt like my ex girlfriend at all and it was all just lust and wanting to do stuff with her like bad kids we were..
plus, my exgirlfriend was half korean but liked black music and black stuff (lived in poor neighborhood) and acted like a man sometimes. >.< totally weird. but her face was really cute and everyone thought she was hot. and I had her. but she was still totally weird and wacko and annoys the crap out of me.
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