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post #1 of 31 (permalink) Old 01-20-2007, 12:18 AM Thread Starter
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question for you ladies

OK so their are 2 girls that i like at work. I flirt with the both of them and have would like to go out with either of them because they are real nice. So i asked out one of them she was busy. So a about a week or so later I ask out the other she was busy that night going out with the parents cause she never gets to spend time with them. So I ask the same girl today what's she's doing Sat. night, well its her b-day so she's going to Daytona with friends. My question is how many times more i should ask her? And what should I say? A friend told me to say : "Sat me and you are going to dinner and a movie" but that seems too pushy. What should i do?

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post #2 of 31 (permalink) Old 01-20-2007, 09:38 AM
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Re: question for you ladies

Guys are not allowed to post in the Ladies Lounge, so I will move your thread to the Lounge.

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Re: question for you ladies

I would suggest not getting involved with both of them at the same time. If you were to date one and the other found out you were pursuing her at the same time, that wouldn't bode too well.

Don't keep pressing either of them to go out with you. If they want to go out with you, they will make the time and let you know they're interested.

Ask them once more and if they still are busy, have them come to you when they are free. Then you will know how interested they are.
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I would focus on the one you think you would like more... I would not go with what your friend said.. you me movie!!! sound a little me Tarzan you Jane! I would go to one and say, I would like to go out with you.. I asked before and you were busy, if you would like to go out one night let me know when is good for you. Put the ball in her court!
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Don't get involved with either of them. Work office romances hardly ever work and when it doesn't she'll still be there working with you. It'll be uncomfortable and it quite possibly could cost a lot of drama.


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^i agree. don't get involved with people you work with.


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the company i work for alot of people date, Managers are married to other managers at different stores and such. Im always at work. So it is hard to meet people. But i do see what you mean about it can cause problems.

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I agree, work & relationships are not a good mix. But get this... Once you find someone esle or move on and forget about them, they will be the ones after you. Always happens that way.

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[quote author=TimY1979 link=topic=67394.msg1160217#msg1160217 date=1169347011]
the company i work for alot of people date, Managers are married to other managers at different stores and such. Im always at work. So it is hard to meet people. But i do see what you mean about it can cause problems.
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sounds like you work at sports authority. At least that's how it is at the two I've worked at. lol

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[quote author=Wizno link=topic=67394.msg1160285#msg1160285 date=1169350070]
[quote author=TimY1979 link=topic=67394.msg1160217#msg1160217 date=1169347011]
the company i work for alot of people date, Managers are married to other managers at different stores and such. Im always at work. So it is hard to meet people. But i do see what you mean about it can cause problems.
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sounds like you work at sports authority. At least that's how it is at the two I've worked at. lol
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