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post #1 of 27 (permalink) Old 08-29-2005, 10:38 AM Thread Starter
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What should I do?

I know this guy who I grew up with. He's my brothers best friend. He was married, and I don't know the whole story, but basically, his witch of a wife kicked him out of their house & told him he's crazy. He even admitted himself into Tucker, but they said he was fine. Now he's living back at home w/ his parents. He cared for his wife (and her son, which was not even his) for several years. I'm worried about him. How do I let him know I'm thinking about him & hoping he's doing okay w/ out him feeling like I'm trying to pity him or be all in his business? I wanna call him or send him a card, but wouldn't know what to say.* I hope he's doing okay.

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Re: What should I do?

I would just call him and be like "damn man, i just heard and wanted to say I feel for ya and I'm thinkin about ya" Don't say your sorry, that sounds like pity to me. Just tell him you heard he was comin across some rough times and wanted to see how he was doing because you were thinking about him. It shouldn't be weird at all.

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why not just ask him out to lunch sometime, don't even bother flat out saying you hope he's ok. I think just showing interest is enough.

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Definitely call him up to say hello and see if he wants to go out and do something. If he wants to talk about it, he will bring it up.

Just act normal.
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Yeah but I'm not close to him! Well, when we were kids he was over our house every day, but that doesn't count. I really hope he's doing okay. I don't know why he married that witch. Nobody likes her. Even if she is DROP DEAD GORGEOUS. She treats him like dirt. I don't know why women feel the need to act like this. She flat out said "I don't love you any more. Get out." And I know there's 2 sides to every story, but I can't imagine his side being THAT BAD. He's loved her since middle school. And that was 10 years ago. When they reached highschool, she moved to Texas (from VA) and got knocked up by some one night stand. But, he still loved her anyway. When he graduated, he moved to Texas to be with her & her son! Then they moved here. She's such an evil woman. I don't understand

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Does anyone know of a nice poem I can mail him? Awwwwwwww god my day is ruined b/c a friend is hurt. I have such a big heart. So big that someone elses pains even hurt me

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Roses are #FF0000
Violets are #0000FF
All my base are belong to you.

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lol your such cornball jason

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There once was a kid in my class,
who's balls were made of brass,
When in stormy weather he'd strike em together
and lightning would shoot out his @$$!

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lol

**and you thought that wouldn't get removed?
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