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post #1 of 35 (permalink) Old 06-01-2005, 11:09 PM Thread Starter
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is it true what they say... :(

the harder you look for love you'll never find it..you must let it find you...sorry guys i just had to speak my mind alil..im gonna explode if i keep all of it inside...

Well i finally broke free of a good relationship gone bad about 4 months ago (lasted together a year)..and since that in the last 4 month ive dated about about 5 girls..with no sucess.. they usually consit of 1 or 2 weeks of talking then ..for some unknown reason...it goes arye ..my friends think im in too much of a hurry to replace my ex ...well the truth is that i am..but im going crazy ive never ever felt so lonely in my life...

Have you guys ever shared a routine with someone ..that was (for lack of better words) perfect...then have it come to a sudden ANGRY end..i guess that what sucks the most ...now i find my weekends wasted...doing the same thing with my friends..and its gotten pathetic

The worst part is that the only attention im getting right now is from my best friend current g/f ...and i cant have that ... we fought(fist fight) once over a fucking gurl..now its dejavu all over again

I dunno what to do i havent met anyone new ..and my daily routine is work and go home...weekend are like pray for something good to pop up..
so i remain miserable..if anyone could give me some advice that would be great

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post #2 of 35 (permalink) Old 06-01-2005, 11:33 PM
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is it true what they say... :(

Dont worry they are plenty of women out there...just keep testing them out..eventually youll find one..

I was once told Women were like busses..if you miss one there will be another coming around the corner in 5 minutes...
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Dont worry they are plenty of women out there...just keep testing them out..eventually youll find one..

I was once told Women were like busses..if you miss one there will be another coming around the corner in 5 minutes...
lol that cracked me up for a while

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post #4 of 35 (permalink) Old 06-01-2005, 11:43 PM
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is it true what they say... :(

Been there done that. If you are trying to replace your ex too fast all you'll get is either ho's or you'll scare the shit out of the good ones by being too persistent. You should just be concentrating on gettin your freak on. Have fun for now and when you least expect WHAM the girl of your dreams.

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^^ hehe thats what I did when I broke up with my 2+ year gf..I ran amok..just ran around dating girls and having a grand old time...even dated 5 girls at once...then bam...fell in love with my wife and now Im married
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is it true what they say... :(

You don't need a woman, my friend.....occupy your time with achieving a deeper understanding of yourself first and continue to improve all negative aspects of your life. You're just so used to a "routine" that you feel that you have to replace it. Bullshit. No one likes to be alone, but you see, this is life's way of telling you that you have alot to learn about where you are and, more importantly, who you are.

You're lost, you have no direction and you need to pick yourself back up NOW and get on with your life. Marinating in your self-inflicted depression will only make each and every morning, noon and night a real chore for you. Why ache so much over a woman? PLEASE! Not worth it, brother.

You see this? ------> ......... <------ craziness....

Wake up, let it all hang out and don't stress.....love will find its way to you one way or another and when it finally does, you will be

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thats a good one Aries haha.

just move on with ur life bro...when u keep bettering ur urself and ur life...woman will come. it something u can't force...just be urself and have fun. Do that woman and ur depression stop u from being ur true self and stop caring other important things in ur life.

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is it true what they say... :(

I've had a situation in the same ballpark as yours, kinda. My story would take too long to write out so I'll just say this, I was in a relationship that couldn't have been better, lasted 3 years, I felt she was the one, etc, you get it... then just before the 3 year mark it ended suddenly by her / mutual breakup / supposed to be temporary, blah blah, etc. (too much to write)

Anyway, it's been 1.5 years since we split and I haven't even thought about replacing her, infact, I'm still mourning and try to begin to recover. So that's my recommendation, take as much time as you need, be true with yourself, in that if you want to mourn, mourn. Don't be fake, be for real. Then you take things at your own pace and when your ready to shop for girls, it's all up to you.

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I've had a situation in the same ballpark as yours, kinda. My story would take too long to write out so I'll just say this, I was in a relationship that couldn't have been better, lasted 3 years, I felt she was the one, etc, you get it... then just before the 3 year mark it ended suddenly by her / mutual breakup / supposed to be temporary, blah blah, etc. (too much to write)

Anyway, it's been 1.5 years since we split and I haven't even thought about replacing her, infact, I'm still mourning and try to begin to recover. So that's my recommendation, take as much time as you need, be true with yourself, in that if you want to mourn, mourn. Don't be fake, be for real. Then you take things at your own pace and when your ready to shop for girls, it's all up to you.
LOL im savoring this guy talk, not every day people talk this bluntly (especially around here wheere i live)

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post #10 of 35 (permalink) Old 06-02-2005, 10:35 AM
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Damn, dude...when I read the OP I hear "I want a girl so I'll have something to do" and "I'm miserable because I have to spend time with my friends"

Take this time to hang out with your pals and do things you wouldn't get to do in a relationship....like take off with the guys for a weekend of debauchery somewhere...go out with any damn chick you want and love the fact that you won't get in trouble for it...just do whatever you want. You don't need a chick to have a good time, but it sounds like you want a girl back in your life simply to relieve the boredom.

I don't think it's really that "the harder you look for love, the more you'll never find it"...I think that when you're out there looking for something specific you'll never find what you're looking for. Why? Because what you want doesn't exist, or what you find never measures up with what you've created in your mind as "what should be." By the time you realize that, you've missed several great opportunities because you were too focused on something you would never find.

Eventually you give up and stop looking, which is when you see the rich world around you for the first time and all of the sudden it becomes much easier to find someone...not because you stopped looking, but because you just started. Looking for something is easier with your eyes open.
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