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Here is my dilemma.
First little history. I worked at a wholesale store in the photo lab. And working on the front end there is this girl that I talked to everyone and awhile. Now though I no longer work there but still go in every now and then to talk with people I work with.
Now here is what happened. I had a party a couple of weeks ago and had invited a bunch of people from my old work including her. Everything started about 10:00. Now here is the thing I called her and checked to see if she was coming. When I talked to her she was out with her boyfriend but said that she(just her) would be over in a few. Well she did show up by herself and now major went down. Then the next weekend I get a call from her at 1:30 and she said she was in my apartment complex and wanted to know if she could come over. So I say yea and come to find out that she left a party that she was at with her boyfriend to come over and kick it for awhile. So she stayed for a couple hours and we talk and stuff. But the thing is she still says she has a boyfriend. And to top everything off I get a nice little valentine's txt message from her yesterday.
Now I am wondering if I should just go for it and ask her out? But the thing is she still has this "boyfriend".

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If she cheats WITH you she will cheat ON you!

I wouldn't waste my time with her...


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We have not done anything. So no "cheating" has gone on. Plus I am not really looking for something "long term".

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^^^ What qualifies as "cheating" really depends on your outlook. I can argue that her just being alone with you is cheating.


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well i agree with velocity, but if you are looking for something short term then go for it but make sure you dont get to attached.


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^^^ What qualifies as "cheating" really depends on your outlook. I can argue that her just being alone with you is cheating.
We have never been alone just the 2 of us. My roommate was there the last time she came over.

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^^^ that dosent count, she came to be with you and not the both of you.


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she's got a bf, you shouldn't ask her out.

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^^^ What qualifies as "cheating" really depends on your outlook. I can argue that her just being alone with you is cheating.
We have never been alone just the 2 of us. My roommate was there the last time she came over.
That's not exactly what I meant. I meant "alone" as in she was there with you, voluntarily, even though she has a boyfriend --- she was there without him. See what I'm getting at? It's very difficult to understand, but based on how I grew up, if you're in a relationship, you just don't put yourself in situations like that. If I had a g/f, I wouldn't be spending time with another girl in her apartment unless my g/f was there too. But that's just me. I'm not as culturally liberal with some things as most people, I guess.


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i agree with carolyn...
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