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Ok... this is the "how to deal with a breakup and all the shit that comes with it" thread. An old tired horse, I know, but I want to beat on it some more.

Here's my situation: I get an IM from my ex g/f tonight so that she can tell me she got engaged to the guy she was seeing behind my back. I'm not sure if she was just looking to rub salt in my wounds, or if she honestly didn't know that I wasn't over her yet.... but how have you people dealt with it in the past? How long did it take you to stop thinking about your ex every breathing moment of your life?

Wow... I'm really swallowing some man-pride with this thread... hope I don't take (much) flak for it.


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omg, I just want to give you a hug.

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If you really wanna get over it, you should sleep with her mom and take pics of it.

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Man that is cruel of your ex. You should be glad you have such a hateful person out of your life. The mere fact she had to rub it in your face means she is the insecure one. Take the high road and find someone 10x hotter then her.

Breakups can be terrible situations. A battle of egos even. Just don't stoop to her level and turn the situation into a pissing match. Furthermore, the guy she is with now...is an idiot. Never marry a woman who cheated on her man to be with you. How can you trust someone who has that in their character? I bet $$$ she will do the same to him or if there is a god he will cheat on her. Karma is a bitch, hopefully she gets her piece.

The best cure to a breakup is remove any articles that remind you of that person from your life. Then, never let your mind be idle. Go out with friends, work, exercise, chat it up on Mazda 3 forums Don't give yourself the opportunity to think about her. The longing for past memories will wane and you will find a beautiful classy woman who will make you ever forget you had to share a bed with your ex.

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Hey my ex called me and tried to talk me out of getting married to my fiance..I feel bad for you though. Ive had a girl that I really liked end up getting engaged. What Ive always found is the best cure for a heart ache is a new girl..
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If you really wanna get over it, you should sleep with her mom and take pics of it.
not the most heartwarming response but :lmao:

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just try to stay busy and hang out with some frends, soon you wont care much about it and then you can move on to some better women.


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If you really wanna get over it, you should sleep with her mom and take pics of it.
!!! OMFG ROFLMAO!!!!! :lmao: :lmao:

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Ok... this is the "how to deal with a breakup and all the shit that comes with it" thread. An old tired horse, I know, but I want to beat on it some more.

Here's my situation: I get an IM from my ex g/f tonight so that she can tell me she got engaged to the guy she was seeing behind my back. I'm not sure if she was just looking to rub salt in my wounds, or if she honestly didn't know that I wasn't over her yet.... but how have you people dealt with it in the past? How long did it take you to stop thinking about your ex every breathing moment of your life?

Wow... I'm really swallowing some man-pride with this thread... hope I don't take (much) flak for it.
Make that 2 beers I owe you. Your ex is an ice cold bitch for telling you that, whether she knew you weren't over her or not. I've been in your shoes (sort of) so I feel your pain. Eventually, my sadness turned to anger whenever I thought of how that bitchcicle tore out my heart and torched it. I immersed myself in my hobbies and my music until I didn't care about her anymore. The wound didn't hurt anymore, but it was still there. It didn't heal until I found a new love (who later became my wife!).

Any woman who would do that to you isn't worthy of your thoughts. You gotta let her go man! It may sound stupid.. but you just have to do it! And that won't happen until you want to let her go.

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