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have a g/f but there is another girl i like

so the story goes that i live with my g/f right now. and there was this girl who lived next door to us. she is super funny, hot, smart.....etc. we hang out sometimes but never alone or anything. we have a ton of fun togeter. the problem is that the girl and my g/f are friends. i have been dating my current g/f for a little over a year and like i said we live together. but the thing that bugs me is that sometimes i wish that i was with the other girl. she is a blast to hang out with and we get along great. i dunno i guess i am in a need of a change of scenary. seems like i have a little bit of a crush on her. any suggestions would be helpful here
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have a g/f but there is another girl i like

Well, I'm probably not the best person to be giving others advice on relationships but, in my personal experience- the best thing to do is weigh out the pros and cons of both your girlfriend and the girl nextdoor. If you are starting to doubt your relationship and future with your current girlfriend it most likely signifies the beginning of the end anyhow. I'd probably get out of the relationship now before it gets even messier and more involved. Then of course you'll have to wait a few months for everything to settle down before you can ask the other girl out but, if you're that crazy about her she'll be worth waiting for =) Just my 2 cents.

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How do you know the other girl will go out with you though....?


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thats the thing i don't. all i know is that we have a blast together when we hang out. kinda hard to explain. not a 100% sure but i can kinda tell. with the looks and the way we talk to each other. i feel like i can tell her stuff, but i am sorta scared to tell her how i feel
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Girls will be girls....

But I would take a safe bet that the chick wouldn't like the fact that you're ditching one of HER friends to go out with her.


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have a g/f but there is another girl i like

tread carefully my friend...

becuase you are treading on dangerous ground...how much do you really know about this other girl? you guys have fun togther and you hang out togther and u can talk about anything and everythingbut unless you are 100% of your feelings or her feelings towards you i would leave the whole thing alone...

its easy to lose sight of your gf when another girl enters the scene...esp. when your friend possibly has qualities that your gf doesn't have...what you have to do decide is whether its worth throwing away your current relationship for something that you're not even 100% sure of...it seems like ur gf means a great deal to you if you guys have been togther for as long as u have and your living togther...living togther is a big step for any relationship...

i think you should also consider moving...if you are worried about you feelings towards this other girl i would suggest you move--and if you feel like u still have feelings towards your gf's friend then you can reevaluate your relationship...but its very hard to tell anything when u guys live so close together...

your in a jam, but i think if you seriously think about it hopefully u'll realize that a year plus is not worth throwing away for a girl that you don't even know shares the same feelings towards you...

hopefully this isn't to harsh--i apoligize if it is.
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have a g/f but there is another girl i like

I agree with Diana, crushes are actually kind of normal when you are in a relationship, but once you take the next step your current relationship is over.
Think about why you live with your gf-you probably love her. Something about her made her attractive to you, if you can't remember what that is, try to turn up the chemistry and establish the relationship you have with the "other" girl with your current girl.

Dating the "other" girl, aka your girlfriends friend is a VERY bad idea.

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well considering my g/f and i just met this other girl back in may of last year. they talk when they are around each other, but its not like they go out and do things together. and some people are right, she does have qualities that my current g/f does not have. part of that is the reason why i like her so much..............its a dilemma i tell ya
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