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Guy went to strip joint and spent $400, tell wife or no?

Ok, I saw this on another board as a topic and thought it was an interesting subject. This guy went and rang up $400 USD at a strip joint.
#1 problem-his WIFE doesn't approve of strip joints
#2 problem-his wife didn't know he went to the strip joint
#3 problem-he spent $400 at the strip joint
#4 problem-now he wants to figure out how to hide the $400 credit card charge from her, so he's transferring the charge to his personal card

She has no idea he went to the strip joint. Should he tell her? Would you? Do you believe in complete and total honesty or do you think he can get away with not telling her?

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hay, it dosent hurt to look :shock:


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Guy went to strip joint and spent $400, tell wife or no?

lol. but he already knows his wife has a problem with it. and a big portion of the money was spent on lap dances. he's not just looking

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Guy went to strip joint and spent $400, tell wife or no?

I'm going to play devil's advocate here.....

I think the question you should ask is "does this guy deserve to have someone tell his wife that he went to the strip club?"

I ask this because the motive for someone going to a place and dropping $400 to see naked women is more important than him actually going. Technically, I see no difference in "wrongness" of someone going to a strip club, casino, ballpark, sports bar, pool hall, drag strip, greyhound track, or whatever.

I've met guys who think the strip club is just another place to hang out - and they'd drop $400 without thinking twice. If this guy once thought in this manner - I can see how he resents his wife for imposing a rule that is directed squarely at something he views as innocuous.

But, if the guy went to the strip club because he was purposely being a prick to his wife and was doing some "extracurricular stuff" at the club - there may be more cause for concern.

I suppose, if $400 were a huge sum of money to this couple, that'd be important as well. i'm used to going to the casinos with people who dropped $2,000 without caring. Of course, there are guys who drop $200,000 without skipping a beat - so it's all subjective.

I'd use your judgement in weighing factors before making a decision based soley on the act of the man going to a strip club.


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yah, he is knee deep in shit. i dont know what else to tell you.


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Guy went to strip joint and spent $400, tell wife or no?

lap dances for himself or for others? I've heard that lap dances make great gifts

I've never been to the strip club though...... I'm more into gambling


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lap dances for himself or for others? I've heard that lap dances make great gifts

I've never been to the strip club though...... I'm more into gambling
never been???


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I say lie to the bitch and say he spent money on his friends birthday or something.


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never been???

No... my old roomates from college went on occasion, but I didn't go with 'em. I remember this one time they hit up the most disgusting strip club in town just to see what it was like......... they wouldn't talk about what happened (they're usually pretty chatty though)...... hmmmmm


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Guy went to strip joint and spent $400, tell wife or no?

I've never been to a strip joint either. I will go some day. I'm not a big fan of them either (letting my SO go to one), but I guess as long as there's no touching then that's one thing.

LOL Frosty, it's his wife. He married her for some reason.

Personally, $400 is a lot to me, and him spending it on a sex object that can't be shared wouldn't be a good thing to me, not to mention he didn't discuss spending that much money before he spent it. Would I want to know? Yes. I'd divorce him then most likely for lying and trying to hide it. Be a man and fess up.

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