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post #1 of 22 (permalink) Old 04-22-2004, 01:30 PM Thread Starter
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When dating someone......

How long until you expect to meet their friends?






Me and some people had a discussion about this yesterday and want to see what you guys think.

Many of girls the girls agreed that when women get into a relationship they are eager to introduce their friends to their new bf but guys arent as anxious

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I think it depends alot how hot the girl is, the hotter she is the more likely the guy wants all his friends to see her.

How are you defining "dating" anyways? Going out occasionally?, semi-exclusive?, exclusive? Generally I'd expect to have met at least her best friend by the time we get to the "semi exclusive" stage. For people who don't do "exclusive" I'd say by the time you start visiting each others house for activities other than sex (i.e dinner or watching TV).


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In the 2 years we've been together I've met only one of her many friends and she has met only one of my few. I go out and do guy things with the guys and she does girlie things with the girls. I figure as soon as I'm all friendly with her friends I might be suckered into tagging along. No thank you!
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Try to meet her friends soon cuz if there is one you like better then you can hook up with her instead.
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raitchison im talking exclusive here........

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i met my gf whe she was with her friends. but in general i'd say once you arent JUSt going on dates, and hang out together somewhat often it's time to introduce the friends. my gf knows all ym friends and we all hang out together quite often. if you've been dating for a while and dont know her friends or vice versa... meeting them might be a good idea.
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ASAP so you'd know when to break up with them. lol jk
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I'd like to know what "semi exclusive" means... lol.. Is that like narrowing it down to only two people instead of five..? You're only dating each other but it's not set in stone..?

One of my girlfriends and I were actually discussing this topic recently. She's dating someone new, and she talks about him all the time, so I want to meet the guy. We've decided to wait a few weeks so the whole "meeting the friends" thing doesn't freak him out.

I'm guessing that typically girls are more anxious to introduce their bfs because they are more open about discussing their relationships. As for me, I like to break 'em in one friend at a time, and usually after a couple of months. lol

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We've decided to wait a few weeks so the whole "meeting the friends" thing doesn't freak him out.
I've been in the club scene for over 16 years as the primary part of my social life, so anyone I've ever dated has either been with friends when we met or met soon thereafter while out at clubs, either in a social setting or while I was working (DJ). I've never really thought about meeting friends as an issue at all. I guess it all depends upon how much of a social life you have. If you don't go out often and meeting friends is an event, I suppose there could be some discomfort if it were too "early". Me, I don't don't really care...the more friends she has the better! (gives me more free time to hang with the buds).

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I'd like to know what "semi exclusive" means... lol.. Is that like narrowing it down to only two people instead of five..? You're only dating each other but it's not set in stone..?
I'd guess both of those would work. Everybody has their own style.


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