Man, I know how you ladies feel, for sure.
I lived in a townhouse my sophomore year of college with 8 other girls. I shared a room with my good friend Blair from my freshmen year. We started out great... we got to know lots of the girls in our house and everything. I became REALLY close with this girl Cassie. We were inseperable! We were always together... making silly videos... getting dinner... going to class together... hanging out at night... everything. she noticed i was on a website one day and decided to join... I was like HELL YESS. all my friends on the site were super awesome to her and everything. she got really close with this guy Michael, which I didn't mind, cause it's the internet and he lived in Utah and was in the military. well... they decided to meet up. I told her it was a really bad idea... I warned her of my past and this site... and she ignored it completely and went along with it anyway... well he came out to our house for a whole week. it was fun and whatnot, we all had a good time. they had sex. she was his 75th person. can you believe that shit!? she felt so horrible.... embarassed. but she was "in love" with him. after he left, we got into a big fight over nothing... and i was like "this is not gonna last... take it from me and my experience..." and she was all "i wanna learn this on my own, i know we'll work out" blah blah blah. so after a while of them being together... we stopped talking completely. eventually, michael went back to his ex and got MARRIED 2 weeks after him and Cassie broke up. she NEVER talked to me again... b/c she knew I was right and she was hurt and whatever.
after we stopped talking, she was so upset that she started to spread rumors about me on campus about how I was anorexic. fucking bullshit let me tell ya. Yea, I'm skinny, but I NEED/WANT food like all the time. to have her say that REALLY hurt me. it was just bullshit... seriously. that summer (after soph year), she IM'd me and apologized and said all this stuff... then my ex's immature friends decided to make up shit about her... and it just all never worked out.
Apparently, she's married now and living in NY. lol random!! We are not facebook friends...
either are me and my roomie from that year, Blair. Shit blew up there too. My boyfriend got banned from the house b/c she was tired of him being over all the time. but she didn't come to ME first.... she went straight to the RA and got him banned. made no sense. lots of sleeping in my car... or at his house after that happened. and the bf's immature friends played some REALLY mean pranks on her. it wasn't cool... i didn't approve. but i couldn't control them. haven't talked to blair since that year.
College is full of drama and lies. My senior year was the best year ever. Still Best friend with my roomie from freshmen year... and I'll be moving closer to her!