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post #1 of 12 (permalink) Old 06-06-2007, 09:35 AM Thread Starter
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Am I being selfish?

I don't usually ask for personal advice but this is really bothering me.

A little bit of background info. My boyfriend's name is Sam. His brother (Bobby) is engaged to a girl I got him hooked up with (Karen). She was one of my best friends... and things were going great until -

[quote author=stephanie link=topic=79089.msg1449884#msg1449884 date=1180622351]
Kind of... one of my best friends is a guy (he really is a brother to me, we've lived next door to each other almost all of our lives) and this guy(whom I barely know, he isn't even on my friends list) who loves to create drama told my boyfriend and his brother and a few of his friends that there are pictures of Chris and I all over each other on our myspaces, and that he had seen me and Chris all over each other at a party. A party that my boyfriend was at too. Luckily my boyfriend and his friends knew this guy was just trying to start drama. (My boyfriend's brother chose to believe the guy who started all of this, and I no longer speak to him)

Drama is ridiculous and I thought I left high school 5 years ago...
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[quote author=stephanie link=topic=79089.msg1450076#msg1450076 date=1180626297]
[quote author=Sky 3 link=topic=79089.msg1450049#msg1450049 date=1180625721]
the fact that u no longer speak to him just creates more drama..
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well I no longer speak to him because he told me that he wouldn't put it past me to cheat on my boyfriend and the fact that he says he doesn't like how I carry myself and that I act like I'm better than other people. I told him that if he took more than 5 seconds to get to know me he would know that's not how I roll... then he went on to say that he doesn't care to get to know me because he's an arrogant asshole (he used those words to describe himself, which makes him a hypocrite, no?) I actually got him and his fiancee together and I told him that if I knew what he thought about me, I wouldn't have gone through the trouble of getting them to meet and make sure they are happy. He said that he didn't owe me shit, not even respect.

I'm not out looking for drama but I will defend myself if I have to.
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I copied that from the thread sweetface started about myspace drama. I added in a few details that I forgot to add in when I made that post.

Karen texted me a few weeks ago to tell me that they had set their wedding date for June 30 at noon. That is the day my boyfriend and I are supposed to leave for our vacation. She knew that we had been planning our vacation for almost a year and that was the day we were leaving!!!! She also told me it was just going to be a small ceremony and no wedding party or anything. Well Sam informed me a few days later that he was the best man. It might sound stupid but that hit a little nerve because Karen and I had always said we would be in each other's wedding party. I have a feeling she didn't ask me to be a bridesmaid because of what happened between Bobby and I.

Last night Sam showed me an invitation to their wedding.... and they moved the time to 3 pm. I wasn't planning on going to the wedding but since Sam is in the wedding party, we have to wait to leave until after the wedding. I talked him into not going to the reception so I guess that means we'll be leaving at around 4:30 or 5:00... for a 9 hour drive. I am so irritated because not only did they know that was the day we were supposed to leave, they actually changed the time and made it later in the day. I don't want anyone to change their wedding plans but it just seems like they did it out of spite. I just have so many emotions going on right now over this... I love Karen but after what Bobby said to me, how can anyone not understand why I don't want to be around someone like that? I'm not a drama queen, I hate it... I don't want to be around someone like that.

Sorry if this doesn't make much sense... I've got a lot of emotions going around in my head right now...

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Re: Am I being selfish?

Yeah Steph that sounds a little fishy.
So you're going to wedding then?


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Re: Am I being selfish?

If they really moved the date out of spite that is really whack! Who does that?


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Re: Am I being selfish?

No, I'm definitely not going!!!

She had the nerve to send me a text about a week ago that said "I hope you're coming to the wedding." Whatever.

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Don't indulge in that drama. Just enjoy the vacay with your boyfriend and let them get on with their life.


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Re: Am I being selfish?

[quote author=cherry link=topic=79671.msg1465577#msg1465577 date=1181137555]
If they really moved the date out of spite that is really whack! Who does that?
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well it's on the same day - June 30, but they mvoed it 3 hours later.

we paid for 7 days at the beach house but thanks to them, we're only getting 6... and we still had to pay for 7.

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Don't indulge in that drama. Just enjoy the vacay with your boyfriend and let them get on with their life.

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That's what my mom keeps telling me... I guess I just feel a little betrayed. With us it was always chicks before dicks ya know? And now it's like the complete opposite.

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Yeah tell me about it. We don't have that bond like guys do when it comes to females.
We're too caddy. Just take a big, deep breath in and let all the crap out.


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I feel a little better after ranting... not much though

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Well keep going if you need to. We're here to listen.


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