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I think I just need to rant.

I'm frustrated.

I'm frustrated and tired of my current relationship (if one even exists anymore..). I love the guy, and it hurts me to end a three year relationship, but I think it's time.


What's more frustrating is one of the people I work with, I can't really explain it, but I feel like he would be my ideal kind of guy to date. Not necessarily my dream guy (though he's not bad..) but I think he's the sort of guy I should be with. Does that make sense?

Problems are:

I work with him.
I'm his manager. (I'm so horrible :O)
and he's two years younger.



We talk for hours at work though, and I feel connected to him at least in a friendship sort of way. It's been frustrating, because he and I are both basically ending our relationships at the same time, and will go to eachother for advice. His ex is older than him, and when I met him I actually thought he was older than I am. He's very mature for his age..

I dunno. I just wanted to rant I think. It's making me go crazy, both the breakup and being around this other guy. I think this would be a line I definately wouldn't want to cross. People frequently date amongst eachother at my work, but not on a manager-staff level.

ugh. whatever will I do with myself.

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post #2 of 18 (permalink) Old 02-04-2007, 02:32 PM
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Re: I think I just need to rant.

if you love him so much, why are you leaving him?

just an opinion...don't date someone you work with. my sister dated many people she worked with and the relationships never worked out and everything was wierd between her and the guys. plus if you're just getting out of a relationship it might just end up being a rebound. i say just stay on a friend level.

again, just my opinion...just be careful!


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Re: I think I just need to rant.

I think.. I love him, but I'm in IN love with him. You know what I mean?

That, and he treats me like shit.. sometimes. Then sometimes the complete opposite. But that still doesn't excuse his poor behavior in the first place. Things have just been going down hill for the two of us. We both know it, and he says he wants to make things work.. but his actions are speaking louder than his words.



I know it'd be so stupid to date this other guy. I just.. want to. Haha. He worked with me all day today. I just adore him. I don't necessarily need to have him, perhaps a clone?

OR I could fire him. And then it would be ok to date him. *kidding, kidding*

I know nothing will become of this infatuation. It's not a rebound sort of thing, though.. I've been thinking this way for a couple months now, the more we talk.

As I said, it's just frustrating. Can't I take the bad things out of my current guy and combine the good?

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Re: I think I just need to rant.

Don't date someone you work with. Not a good idea.


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Re: I think I just need to rant.

I think what makes it worse is I'm his boss.


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Re: I think I just need to rant.

I think thats probably the attraction part. You know you can't have him, so you want him more. If things aren't working out in your current relationship, then let it be. Don't rush into to something while your relationship is deteriorating.


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Re: I think I just need to rant.

I agree with don't date at work.

It really sucks when you break up and you can't avoid the person :?

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Re: I think I just need to rant.

If he dumps me, I'll fire him.

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Re: I think I just need to rant.

Cute, but does your workspace have a policy against that? As in bosses dating a staff member.


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Re: I think I just need to rant.

Yeah.. technically. lol

Cause it can cause problems such as favoritism and the such. But my boss already knows I can handle that. back when I was regular floor staff they hired the guy I've been with for the last three years.. They promoted me to a supervisor position within a month. :P

I think I'd get a "You shouldn't do that." and a firm slap on the wrists...

I'm already breaking and bending some of those same sorts of rules.. There's a couple staff members I hang out with outside of work. That's not really allowed for a manager to do.

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