You should not call him or answer any of his phone calls. Make your self busy and don't worry sweety there are realy men out there.
[quote author=PRmazda3Girl link=topic=44924.msg675606#msg675606 date=1145665298]
I'm thinking if I get this out of my system then I can stop feeling so lousey...
So.. I meet this guy.* Things are cool, we date for about 2 months and now its over.* And I am a COMPLETE mess over this.* I don't know why.* Its not like I knew him long enough to "Fall" for him or even know him that well.* and there were those "things" you all know, that show you that things are not going to last between the two of you.* But I was like what the hell, he's cute we have fun.* I have been on my own for 2 years now (separated 2yrs, divorced 1) had been seeing someone, for a while but he has issues that he needs to deal with himself.* So, new guy was a breath of fresh air.* And I told him straight out, I have been through lots of shit and I am not going to do any of that again.* I am too old for that.* Be totaly honest with me and I will with you.* If you don't want to see, me tell me and I'm gone. No worries...* So things get "weird" yup, ya'll know where I'm heading.. phone calls a lower in #'s, and later... he doesn't want to do as much etc. etc.* I ask him, is there someone esle.* "No" he says.* "Don't BS me" blah, blah, blah* things are cool.* then he comes out a few days later and tells me he met someone, but she has a BF, and thats looking for trouble etc. etc.* I'm like "hello, I am not with anyone"* WTF??* But he is not "interested" in her.* Knowing I have some errands to run today he's like call me in the morning and I'll go with you. (Mind this he is really into Mazdas and my car & love for cars)* So, when I get to his house after talking to him he's not going with me!* I was PISSED!* I'm like, I wasted time coming by here.* And he was all flirty, but staying away, know what I mean.* So I leave, mad of course, and I call him and we get into it.* I'm like its hard being around you and not being affectionate etc. etc.* He tells me he doesn't feel the same.* *:shock: What an ASS!! So, I leave and call him while I am on the road, we talk and I tell him then we are done.* B.c I'm not up for games. Like I told him before...* So, all day I'm pissed, feeling like a complete looser, b/c of this boy.* And I say boy b/c he's only 21.
I KNEW this was not going to ammount to anything.* I wanted so bad SO many times to say to him "You need to grow up" but I couldn't. I knew this was not going to last, but I feel so Played.* *
Oh and get this the "girl" is someone from his past.* Not anyone new!
I really want to cry!* But why cry??* I havn't felt like this since I was in high school!!* Ay, stupid boys!
I just don't understand why I am so upset over it all.*
ok Ladies, help a girl get her self-esteem back up!* *