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Where my Girls at?? (Guy issues)

I'm thinking if I get this out of my system then I can stop feeling so lousey...

So.. I meet this guy. Things are cool, we date for about 2 months and now its over. And I am a COMPLETE mess over this. I don't know why. Its not like I knew him long enough to "Fall" for him or even know him that well. and there were those "things" you all know, that show you that things are not going to last between the two of you. But I was like what the hell, he's cute we have fun. I have been on my own for 2 years now (separated 2yrs, divorced 1) had been seeing someone, for a while but he has issues that he needs to deal with himself. So, new guy was a breath of fresh air. And I told him straight out, I have been through lots of shit and I am not going to do any of that again. I am too old for that. Be totaly honest with me and I will with you. If you don't want to see, me tell me and I'm gone. No worries... So things get "weird" yup, ya'll know where I'm heading.. phone calls a lower in #'s, and later... he doesn't want to do as much etc. etc. I ask him, is there someone esle. "No" he says. "Don't BS me" blah, blah, blah things are cool. then he comes out a few days later and tells me he met someone, but she has a BF, and thats looking for trouble etc. etc. I'm like "hello, I am not with anyone" WTF?? But he is not "interested" in her. Knowing I have some errands to run today he's like call me in the morning and I'll go with you. (Mind this he is really into Mazdas and my car & love for cars) So, when I get to his house after talking to him he's not going with me! I was PISSED! I'm like, I wasted time coming by here. And he was all flirty, but staying away, know what I mean. So I leave, mad of course, and I call him and we get into it. I'm like its hard being around you and not being affectionate etc. etc. He tells me he doesn't feel the same. :shock: What an ASS!! So, I leave and call him while I am on the road, we talk and I tell him then we are done. B.c I'm not up for games. Like I told him before... So, all day I'm pissed, feeling like a complete looser, b/c of this boy. And I say boy b/c he's only 21.
I KNEW this was not going to ammount to anything. I wanted so bad SO many times to say to him "You need to grow up" but I couldn't. I knew this was not going to last, but I feel so Played. Oh and get this the "girl" is someone from his past. Not anyone new!
I really want to cry! But why cry?? I havn't felt like this since I was in high school!! Ay, stupid boys!

I just don't understand why I am so upset over it all.
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Re: Where my Girls at?? (Guy issues)

Thats what I am trying to do, but I SWEAR its the 1st Friday night that I can't find anyone to go out with!! Everyones busy, or tired or too far away. Plus, I've done laundry, mopped the whole house. I don't know what else to do to keep busy! AGH

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ITs dirty, its been raining. Trust me the thought didn't cross my mind. AND the STUPID car reminds me of him. He used to detail it all the time...

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Re: Where my Girls at?? (Guy issues)

Wow I'm sorry


The best thing to do when a guy starts pulling away from you is to do the exact same thing: pull away from him. Men HATE feeling hassled. And all though you have every right to be hurt/mad/upset, you hassled him which only pushed him even further away. The moment you saw he wanted space, you shoulda given it to him. Then he'd be like damn... where's my hott PR mami ?!?!? maybe i should call her! Men are stupid! (seriously) i don't care if you've known a man for 2 months or 20 years, don't nag him. if he suddenly seems "distant" or like he doesn't call as much, so what?!?! occupy your time and eventually he'll be wondering the same thing about you: "why isn't she calling me as much?!?!?"

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Ha ha, Thanks T!!
Eventhough thats exactly what has been running through my head, it seems easier to follow when someone else tells you to do it!

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Re: Where my Girls at?? (Guy issues)

men are scum like tracy said--

i agree w/ tracy though, you do your own thing and see what happens, and remember this fact, that a true man will NEVER break your heart so don't cry over a man that has hurt you becuase he's not worth it!!

i wish i had some better advice for you, really i do, I just wish you all the best and don't worry so much about finding someone, the right person will come along when you least expect it and sweep you totally off your feet

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[quote author=glaive81 link=topic=44924.msg675798#msg675798 date=1145673885]
i agree w/ tracy though, you do your own thing and see what happens, and remember this fact, that a true man will NEVER break your heart so don't cry over a man that has hurt you becuase he's not worth it!!

i wish i had some better advice for you, really i do, I just wish you all the best and don't worry so much about finding someone, the right person will come along when you least expect it and sweep you totally off your feet
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Perhaps the end of this relationship (no matter how short) is the one that hurts more because it's not your first rebound relationship? You've had more time to get perspective on the loss of your marriage, so is that maybe rearing its head a bit?

I'm very sorry, though. Some break-ups can be harder than others--even the ones where logic tells us that we shouldn't be upset. For some reason those are sometimes the hardest ones.

You will find the right guy...but in the meantime concentrate on YOU making you happy. Do things that you enjoy and don't worry about pleasing anyone else. And don't feel the need to jump right into another relationship--perhaps some solo time would help you recognize the right guy when he comes along and not be too quick to get close to guys who aren't going to make you happy in the long-term.



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You should not call him or answer any of his phone calls. Make your self busy and don't worry sweety there are realy men out there.

[quote author=PRmazda3Girl link=topic=44924.msg675606#msg675606 date=1145665298]
I'm thinking if I get this out of my system then I can stop feeling so lousey...

So.. I meet this guy.* Things are cool, we date for about 2 months and now its over.* And I am a COMPLETE mess over this.* I don't know why.* Its not like I knew him long enough to "Fall" for him or even know him that well.* and there were those "things" you all know, that show you that things are not going to last between the two of you.* But I was like what the hell, he's cute we have fun.* I have been on my own for 2 years now (separated 2yrs, divorced 1) had been seeing someone, for a while but he has issues that he needs to deal with himself.* So, new guy was a breath of fresh air.* And I told him straight out, I have been through lots of shit and I am not going to do any of that again.* I am too old for that.* Be totaly honest with me and I will with you.* If you don't want to see, me tell me and I'm gone. No worries...* So things get "weird" yup, ya'll know where I'm heading.. phone calls a lower in #'s, and later... he doesn't want to do as much etc. etc.* I ask him, is there someone esle.* "No" he says.* "Don't BS me" blah, blah, blah* things are cool.* then he comes out a few days later and tells me he met someone, but she has a BF, and thats looking for trouble etc. etc.* I'm like "hello, I am not with anyone"* WTF??* But he is not "interested" in her.* Knowing I have some errands to run today he's like call me in the morning and I'll go with you. (Mind this he is really into Mazdas and my car & love for cars)* So, when I get to his house after talking to him he's not going with me!* I was PISSED!* I'm like, I wasted time coming by here.* And he was all flirty, but staying away, know what I mean.* So I leave, mad of course, and I call him and we get into it.* I'm like its hard being around you and not being affectionate etc. etc.* He tells me he doesn't feel the same.* *:shock: What an ASS!! So, I leave and call him while I am on the road, we talk and I tell him then we are done.* B.c I'm not up for games. Like I told him before...* So, all day I'm pissed, feeling like a complete looser, b/c of this boy.* And I say boy b/c he's only 21.
I KNEW this was not going to ammount to anything.* I wanted so bad SO many times to say to him "You need to grow up" but I couldn't. I knew this was not going to last, but I feel so Played.* * Oh and get this the "girl" is someone from his past.* Not anyone new!
I really want to cry!* But why cry??* I havn't felt like this since I was in high school!!* Ay, stupid boys!

I just don't understand why I am so upset over it all.*
ok Ladies, help a girl get her self-esteem back up!* *
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Yeah, 21 year old guyz are children. I'm 21 so i know what they're all about lol

Get some new decals and mods for ur 3, that's what i do when i'm sad


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cherry, good one!

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